"Honey, you are sacred land. Choose your travelers wisely."

~ Della Hicks-Wilson

​For women, sex is internal. It's something that takes place within our bodies- both literally and energetically. Whatever a man is presently going through- his current state/his consciousness (positive or negative)- the woman he enters will absorb it on some level.

🌹babes- if you've ever experienced a sense of heaviness in the day or week after being with someone, you'll know what I mean. Trust that inner voice when choosing a partner to share yourself with... I know because I learned this the hard way.

​The opposite is true as well. When your partner is fully present throughout the encounter, how do you feel? Absolute presence is probably the sexiest thing anyone can bring to bed... But besides being turned on, do you also feel honored, held and more inclined to give? My guess is yup ya do.  

And to the men reading this: hold yourself accountable for the energy you bring to the exchange. Show up with loving presence- in one-night stands and in long-term relationships. Your partner will feel it immediately... and that's when the magic happens. 

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